Father’s Day
At my church yesterday (www.therevolution.tv), all of the men were called forward and given a “Man Card” with 1 Cor. 16:13-14 on the back of it.
Be watchful,
stand firm in the faith,
act like men,
be strong.
Let all that you do be done in love.
1 Cor 16:13-14 (ESV)
What an awesome verse to live by as fathers. I will carry mine with pride (the good kind of pride)!
Journaling in Recovery
Journaling through the years has been incredibily beneficial for me. Personally, when I journal it seems to be the way the Lord speaks to me the most clearly about what I am going through – giving me insights into my struggles and my responses as I write things out.
Putting my thoughts on paper rather than letting them just swim around in my brain helps a lot too. I can look at what is on my mind much more objectively when I write it down. That is when the insights I mentioned above often come to light.
Journaling also has helped me to see patterns in thoughts, feelings and behaviors as I have done it over the years. I can remember journaling about similar things in the past and suddenly realize I’ve been around this mountain before. That is a big motivation to dig in more deeply because I despise feeling like I am doing the same things over and over.
Bottom-line, for me journaling is an essential element of of recovery. I don’t do it every day. It is an ebb and flow. I have seasons where I journal a lot and others when I don’t. However, I always come back to it as a primary engine of recovery.
Things Are Not “Just Fine”
What is the most common answer to the question, “How are you today?” It is the superficial, “Fine.”
This drives a lot of people crazy. I am one of them. Why? Because it feeds a culture of denial. Every time I respond with that answer untruthfully, I am putting a little band-aid on my heart in an attempt to hide. The problem is hiding from others leads to hiding from myself and God too. I start to believe that things are “Fine” even when they are truly rotten.
My people are broken – shattered! -
and they put on Band-Aids,
Saying, ‘It’s not so bad. You’ll be just fine.’
But things are not ‘just fine’!
- Jeremiah 6:14 (The Message)
Obviously I am not going to spill my guts to everyone I talk to. But, I need to be spilling my guts somewhere! My freedom and the health of my relationships, with Jesus and others, depends on it.
I don’t want to live my life floating in a boat on a river called DENIAL.
Purity is a Lifestyle
I am realizing more than ever that purity is a lifestyle. It’s not the result of a single decision we make to be sexually pure. Rather, purity is the result of the little decisions I make each and every day.
From an addiction standpoint, the decisions that lead to purity aren’t simply to avoid objects of lust and arenas of temptation. It is more than that. The decision to maintain my spiritual, emotional, physical and mental health are paramount. I have to decide to take care of myself, which is so foreign to someone who has been steeped in the shame of addiction.

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